When Going Home For The Holidays Isn’t An Option

Quick answer: If you can't go home for the holidays, your chapter is often the best fallback community — many houses stay open or organize a "Friendsgiving"-style gathering, and reaching out to your big, little, or a local chapter alum can turn an otherwise lonely break into a good one.

Check if your chapter house stays open

Some chapter houses remain partially open over break, especially near campuses with a large international or out-of-state population. Ask your chapter president or house director early — don't wait until the week of break to find out your options.

Lean on your chapter network

Your big, little, or a chapter alum in the area can be a real resource if you're stuck on campus — a home-cooked meal or an invite to their family's celebration can make a big difference. Most people are glad to be asked.

Organize something with others in the same situation

You're rarely the only one staying on or near campus. A low-key potluck or Friendsgiving with other students in your situation — Greek life or not — beats spending the holiday alone.

FAQ

What if I can't afford to go home for the holidays?
Talk to your chapter or campus international student office — many schools and Greek organizations have resources or informal networks specifically for students staying on campus over break.

Are chapter houses open during holiday breaks?
It varies by chapter and campus — ask your chapter leadership directly, as some houses stay partially open while others close entirely.

However you spend the break, chapter gear keeps your community close.