Questions to ask Sorority Sisters during the Rush

Quick answer: The best recruitment questions show genuine interest rather than just filling silence — ask about a sister's personal experience (why she chose this chapter, what surprised her) rather than generic yes/no questions. Have 3-4 ready per round so you're never caught in an awkward pause.

Questions about chapter life

What drew you to this chapter specifically? How does big/little pairing work here? What's your favorite sisterhood event this chapter does? How do members balance chapter commitments with school or work?

Questions about philanthropy

What does your chapter's philanthropy mean to you personally? How can new members get involved right away? Is there a way to stay involved with philanthropy after graduation?

Questions that invite a real answer

What was your biggest worry before joining, and how did it turn out? What's one piece of advice you'd give a PNM going through recruitment right now? What does being a sister mean to you?

Tip: stay present in the conversation

Make eye contact, avoid looking around the room at other conversations, and treat the few minutes you have as fully yours — it's what makes a sister remember you afterward.

FAQ

How many questions should I prepare for recruitment?
3-4 solid questions per round is enough — you don't need dozens, just enough to avoid an awkward silence and show genuine interest.

Is it okay to ask the same questions in every round?
Yes, especially open-ended ones like "what drew you to this chapter?" — the answers will differ chapter to chapter and tell you a lot.

For the full recruitment process, see our complete Rush Week guide.